How Men Grieve

A friend asked with genuine concern, “How are you?” “I’m OK.  Not very happy, never am. I think the world is a pretty crazy place, but I’m OK,” I replied. “Really?  You look troubled. I’m asking because I want to know how you are … really,” she said. E… Continue reading

How Men Grieve

A friend asked with genuine concern, “How are you?” “I’m OK.  Not very happy, never am. I think the world is a pretty crazy place, but I’m OK,” I replied. “Really?  You look troubled. I’m asking because I want to know how you are … really,” she said. E… Continue reading

Our Siblings, Our Selves

A new study of sibling relationships in later life, linked to well-being, brought the Brown sisters to mind. They are the quartet of women whose annual photographs, over more than four decades in the same pose and in the same order, taken by the same p… Continue reading

Honoring MLK Day, One Pie at a Time

Some people make a difference in over-the-top, attention-getting ways. They’re the ones making loud proclamations about their philanthropy or funding buildings with their names emblazoned on every hallway and parking garage. And then there are people w… Continue reading

Honoring MLK Day, One Pie at a Time

Some people make a difference in over-the-top, attention-getting ways. They’re the ones making loud proclamations about their philanthropy or funding buildings with their names emblazoned on every hallway and parking garage. And then there are people w… Continue reading

On a Mission to My Dad’s Remission

“Your father is very sick.” This is not what you want to hear from your parent’s oncologist, but precisely why I was by my father’s side at his appointments. The coldest days of winter 2017 were also the darkest days, as I was living in fear my father,… Continue reading

When Is the Right Time to Visit a New Grandchild?

When Erin and Peter Dawson brought their firstborn, June, home from the hospital in mid-November, there wasn’t a welcoming party of adoring grandparents loaded down with casseroles and balloons waiting on their doorstep. And that’s just the way they wa… Continue reading

Do You Have Existential Anxiety?

(Editor’s Note: This story originally ran on Rewire.) National and international politics are reaching a cacophony. It’s hard to cut through the chatter to know where our country, and planet, is really headed. To top it off, we’re living with feelings … Continue reading

Worth Watching: A New TV Series on the Upside of Downsizing

When you think about downsizing your home and relocating, there’s a word that probably comes to mind: yecch. The process can be time-consuming, agonizing, frustrating and just plain sad. But, as the new public television series The Legacy List shows (c… Continue reading

How Returning to College for an Advance Degree Changed My Life

The day my mother gave me a journal to help me cope with my grandmother’s suicide undoubtedly changed my life forever. That seemingly benign gesture, when I was 10, laid the groundwork for my life as a writer. Following this continuum, and after a seri… Continue reading