How Men Grieve

A friend asked with genuine concern, “How are you?” “I’m OK.  Not very happy, never am. I think the world is a pretty crazy place, but I’m OK,” I replied. “Really?  You look troubled. I’m asking because I want to know how you are … really,” she said. E… Continue reading

How Men Grieve

A friend asked with genuine concern, “How are you?” “I’m OK.  Not very happy, never am. I think the world is a pretty crazy place, but I’m OK,” I replied. “Really?  You look troubled. I’m asking because I want to know how you are … really,” she said. E… Continue reading

Our Siblings, Our Selves

A new study of sibling relationships in later life, linked to well-being, brought the Brown sisters to mind. They are the quartet of women whose annual photographs, over more than four decades in the same pose and in the same order, taken by the same p… Continue reading

OPINION: Why I’m Not Giving Up My Landline

Some people may think it odd that I still have landline phones in my house. After all, I’m an engineer who has worked on everything from spectrophotometers to satellites. I have more computers than socks. My office looks like a data center at a small c… Continue reading

Honoring MLK Day, One Pie at a Time

Some people make a difference in over-the-top, attention-getting ways. They’re the ones making loud proclamations about their philanthropy or funding buildings with their names emblazoned on every hallway and parking garage. And then there are people w… Continue reading

Honoring MLK Day, One Pie at a Time

Some people make a difference in over-the-top, attention-getting ways. They’re the ones making loud proclamations about their philanthropy or funding buildings with their names emblazoned on every hallway and parking garage. And then there are people w… Continue reading

On a Mission to My Dad’s Remission

“Your father is very sick.” This is not what you want to hear from your parent’s oncologist, but precisely why I was by my father’s side at his appointments. The coldest days of winter 2017 were also the darkest days, as I was living in fear my father,… Continue reading

When Is the Right Time to Visit a New Grandchild?

When Erin and Peter Dawson brought their firstborn, June, home from the hospital in mid-November, there wasn’t a welcoming party of adoring grandparents loaded down with casseroles and balloons waiting on their doorstep. And that’s just the way they wa… Continue reading

How Returning to College for an Advance Degree Changed My Life

The day my mother gave me a journal to help me cope with my grandmother’s suicide undoubtedly changed my life forever. That seemingly benign gesture, when I was 10, laid the groundwork for my life as a writer. Following this continuum, and after a seri… Continue reading

Raising the Curtain on Senior Theater

Last November, Ed Harris, 69, took over the role of Atticus Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird on Broadway; his predecessor, Jeff Daniels, is 64. Andre De Shields, 73, won a Tony Award in 2019 for his role in the Broadway musical Hadestown.  And previous T… Continue reading